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I kinda doubt it but is there anything that is soft like silicone, but safe to wear in fresh-ish stretches?

Nope.
If its squishie or overly soft its going to be porous and not safe for fresh stretches.
I prefer glass > metal though. Its generally much more rounded and keeps heat a bit better.

Thanks, that's what I thought but I figured it's worth a try!

Heat retention is good, so I think I will definitely go with glass then.