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[RedOrGreen]

New to the site and I had a quick question. Im currently at 1" and am stretching up. I want to get to 1 1/4-1 1/2. I got up to an inch in about 7-8 months give or take a couple weeks but I stretched up extremely quick. I blew my left earlobe out and it looks like a saggy old vagina. Because because of that im gonna get my ears sewn within the next 5-10 years. I had an attached earlobe in the first place so stretching it was a ridiculous idea. I have enough skin to keep stretching up I think but I was wondering if I could kill the skin if I kept stretching. Kinda drunk while writing this so it might not make sense. I bought some Narra Burl plugs 31.7mm and im pretty stoked to get em..

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I need to get all the steps between 25.4mm to 31.7mm so I can go up in stages when I decide to start stretching again. Anyone kno a good place for cheap tunnels that aren't cheaply made?

[RedOrGreen]

Oh yeah I've been sittin at 1" for almost 4 month. My right ear is healthy and fat andmy left ear is a little thin but also healthy and very much alive and lookin good. I'd post some pictures but I cnt figure out how to post from my phone at the moment. I've had some friends stretch up to 2+ inches and their lobes are a bit fvcked up but look "ok" . I am stretching up A LOT slower now that im at a bigger size. I was just really impatient at first.

[SusiHill]

if your lobes are thin, you should stop stretching for a while and do vitamin E, jobjoba oil and or emu oil massages.until they get thicker then go back to stretching,

[RedOrGreen]

Alright ill go pick up some e oil on my way home from work. I've been cruising around the forum and reading about lobe maintenance, had no idea I was taking such bad care of my ears. Does anyone have any suggestions on fixing my blown out ear? I think its probably WAY too late to do anything about it. I wrecked my ear at 3/4" I think, might have been the size below I dnt really remember. But I just kept on stretching away after that. I didn't kno I was supposes to downsize and oil my poor lobe up I just figured I was fucked. Its been about 4 months since I did it.

So I took my tunnels out and looked at my earlobes. The back of my left ear looks like hammered dog shit, I did some serious damage. I was thinking about downsizing to 3/4 an
d letting it sit for a couple months and the goin back up. Should I let it heal smaller than that? It looks like a little more that half of my lobe rolled out the back. I want to go up to 32mm but I dnt want my to do any more damage than I've already done. Anyone got an email I can send some pics to so u can see how bad this is then maybe give me some more informed advice?

[SusiHill]

whatever size is the smallest you can get to stay in your ear is the one you need to let your ear sit at and heal up,

[RedOrGreen]

I've just been leaving my ear naked. Is it normal for my lobe to be tender while its shrinking? I've been massaging it a couple 2-3x a day and its a little sore

[TheGreyEyedMonster]

You may be massaging it too hard