My ears are in extream need of help

[Panicckk]

oh sorry nic didnt see ur previous post. um haha im stretching with plastic black straight tapers, and leave them in as the jewleryyy. :s

i remember going to a website, and the girls were saying how messed i was doing it the way i did my stretching, how i should feel no pain whatsoever only pressure, and if there was any blood or pain, i was doing it wrong. they got soo pissed at me.

[Frampy]

OMG! I thought I was the only person in the world with this problem. I was asking sooo many of my friends who have also stretched their ears about why I was leaking tacky fluid from my ear, and noone could give me an answer. I was fine all the way up to 4g and decided to go up to a 2g and a day later my right ear was horrible. The left ear got bad 3 days later.
So after a week of trying different jewelry and ways of washing it I took out my earrings.
My ears healed perfectly in 2 weeks. So I decided to try to put in 8g again, it worked and was fine, then went to a 6g and fine again, then to 4g and 2 days later they're back to being itchy and leaky.
Can you please let me know if the biooil works or if you found something else that worked?
Thanks!

[magalo le matelot]

Do you all think that your ears will look perfect during the stretching process... you are stretching your skin you know, it's normal that your body react to this...

[Panicckk]

ah good. not that i want your ears to be like that, i just thought it was me. um the bio oil sorta works, but my ears havent really changed :S

no i deff didnt think my ears would be pretty and normal, just the fact that its been like this for 4 months and i can fix it.

[Frampy]

No I know that my ears won't look perfect during the stretching process, I just think it's odd that all the sudden at 2g that my ears did this. I took them out for a couple weeks then put 4g back in and i'm having the same problem at 4g.
Will jojoba oil help at all?
Any other feedback would be appreciated.
Thanks!

[Panicckk]

i think that oil is extreamly well. ive seen people suggest this oil like crazy, but i guess its to what the ears take to?

[Frampy]

Hey Panicckk,
Just thought i'd let you know that my ears are on the mend. I figured out that it was the soap and other products I was using that made my ears so dry. So now I'm just cleaning them gently with warm water a few times a day and before I go to bed I put some jojoba oil on them. Seems to be clearing them up pretty good. Hopefully it works for you as well!

[Panicckk]

random update, i went out and got 2 sets of plugs, because i got a deal if i got two. anyways. one pair was not a 2g. it was inbetween a 2g and a 0g, so i squeezed into them.
i hope thats all good going to a size thats does not exsist.