I am new to this as of today so im not exactly sure how this all works yet. But anyways I recently started stretching my ears on May 12, 11. I have had my ears pierced for a long time so i decided to stretch them. I started off with a size 12 I believe they are and I put them in I didn't have any problems, but on my right ear it wouldn't go all the way so I didn't force it, i pushed it as fars as my ear would let it n left it like that. Yesterday May 15, 11 was the first time I took them out. My left ear had white puss and had clear liquid oozing from it alittle bit, n I used a Q-tip to clean the outside first n little bit of blood was present. I know it's from hitting it, but it's healing. But my right ear is even bigger problem, yesterday when I went to take it out it was stuck. I had to take a hot shower n I finally got it out. I cleaned both with sea salt n warm water. I put them back in and I got the right stretcher to go in all the way like it is supposed to with no complications. But later on that night I went to clean them again and it wouldn't come out.
I took another hot shower n it took bout 15 minutes to get it out, i had to use the end of my nail to push it out. I cleaned it n was causous to put it back in, i slid it threw alittle bit as so it wouldn't shrink so i could make a decision to take it out or leave it I decided to take it out n when i went to take it out it was really hard to get out again n it took awile. So it's still out but I have a regular earing in so it won't close compleatly. my question is is why was the stretcher continously hard to get out, and what should I do about restretching it?
Please help me, thank you
Thank you so much for your help, I know I made the mistake of skipping sizes. I've learned my lesson n glad that it wasn't worse than it is. But I will deffinatley downsize n let it heal n start again slowly. I also have another question tho, I feel stupid for asking but, in both my ears I have this white tube like thing n on my left ear I pulled some out in the front and it wasn't pus or scabbing, n their was some that i pulled out in the back. n on my right ear when i push on my ear the white tube things pokes out. Someone told me it's something called the ''plug'' I was wondering what exactly that is and why I have them? Thank you again so much for your help! 
