and i am getting my ears pierced at six gauge. ive heardthat im goingto have to wait a rather long time before i can stretch to a bigger size because i gotta wait for my lobes to heal/become stretchy enough to upsize, so im gonna be rocking the 6g for a while. are they gonna look super small on me?////\??///!!??!?!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
depends, what may look small to you might not look small to others, and vise versa. ideally you should wait 5-6 months for bot the piercing to heal AND for the fistula to build up the strength to accommodate a stretch. its ok for you to change out your jewelry at 6-8 weeks IF they are healed, but stretching after only 6 weeks will land you with some seriously fucked up lobes.
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Have
10mm Lobes (to be 16mm)
(R)Helix Want
(L)ear- Double Helix, Tragus, Rook, 2nd&3rd Lobes
(R)ear- 6g Helix Punch, Industrial, 2nd&3rd Lobes
Nape
Tongue Web
(R)Nostril