Hello everyone, I got my ears pierced at an 8g about 1 year and a half ago. I started stretching after the first year, I waited 1 month in between sizes, sometimes longer, and I made it to a 2g. I was trying to go to a 0g after waiting a month, and my right ear looked like it was getting wrinkles or something, it's always been red on the inside I don't know why. I take my time, and I daily massage with e-oil for like 20 minutes 3 times daily.
Anyways, I downsized all the way back to my glass plugs which are 8g(technically 7g is what my piercer says) anyways, I got rid of the wrinkles in the back, but the bottom of the lobe has like a couple of wrinkles, I know I've never blown out my ear, or stretched to fast, because no resistance, pain, bleeding, or blowouts.
So, is my ear just naturally wrinkled when it gets down? should I keep stretching? i've waited a month, my other ear is completely fine on the other hand, it's really circular with no redness, or wrinkles at all.
What should I do? I want to stretch a lot bigger, but those wrinkles make me paranoid like my ear will rip or something. Should I just keep stretching, and not worry? People said you can get natural wrinkles so that's why I am curious. It's not on the outside, just the inside, and you have to really look to tell. But, it's my ear so of course I am my own worst critic.
I asked my girlfriend, she said "Babe.. there is nothing wrong with your ear, at all. Stop being paranoid and just stretch" :/