It's pretty normal to have your ears heal at different rates;you'll likely find that when you do start stretching them,they'll do that too,or you'll have a 'difficult ear',meaning that the one will stretch more easily than the other.That's what most will seem to experience(for me it's my right). But since it's been a month since the intitial piercing, maybe it'd be worth asking your piercer to change them because they're too short. It's been 20 years since I got my ears initially pierced,so I don't know if I'm remembering correctly,but I think I remember something about it was ok to change them after 6 weeks or something,but I could be remembering wrong,so your piercer could answer that better.
But welcome, I know I've found this forum to be pretty helpful
AkPhilly,
Philadelphia,PA
3/4" (19mm) earlobes
14g industrial
12g tongue
7 tattoos
retired septum (though considering resurrecting it
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WANT: both conchs,& microdermal,& more tattoos!