is thiz a blowout?

[Chileenie]

so i stretched my right ear from a 4g to a 2g (my other ear is a 2g) but i pinched my ear alot during the stretched,and some red spots showed up,kinda like when you get a hicky(while i stretched i soaked my ear in aa steamy ,warm towel) but i was able to put in the plug. i took it out twice after i noticed the bakc was a reddish purple.so i switched back to a 4 for a couple days,and decided to see if the 2g plug fit in my righ ear,so after my shower,with some effort,i put the plug in,it sorta hurt when i moved it though.i also noticed the baack skin was what we call a blow out.so i moved my plug the other way so thaaat it went back in my ear(?) and now it dosent show.its still sore to the touch and is sore when i move the plug.i had the same kind of problem with the other plug though too.so should i wait a couple days fro it to heal? or put the 4g back in.

also note that i wait atleast a month between stretches.i guess my ears dont stretch as easyly as others,lol.

ps.sorry bout the spelling lol

[TheGreyEyedMonster]

put the 4g back in and stop messing with it. soak it, massage it once its healed and not sore at all, then wait a while before stretching it again. messing with it at this point is only making it more and more irritated.