I stopped stretching about a year and a half ago. I was always careful with stretching and would wait three months before going up a size every time because one of my ears is very sensitive and gets infected a lot. Now my stubborn ear isn't infected any more but I have very uneven scar tissue all the way around the hole, it's almost like there's hard chunks of skin where the plug sits. It mainly bothers me when I don't have anything in it and it looks way uglier than the other one. It still gets irritated so I take special care of it and wash it every morning and night. I massage it every night for about fifteen minutes with castor oil because I heard it's used for stretch marks a lot of the time. I have used vitamin E oil before but I don't have any now.
This morning I was looking at it to see if it looked any better and I noticed there's dark marks on the bottom of my lobe. I think it's from massaging it too hard. Any help would be greatly appreciated!!