I was stretching my ears just fine, healthy and nice, until I got to 5/8s. I used these heavy ass tapers from my local Hastings which really did a number on my lobes. So, like a dumb-fuck, I left them in for about a month or so with no maintenance or anything. Finally I got some 5/8s silicone tunnels which let my ears heal up (more so my right ear, my left ear was still pretty bad, but I know I should have down-sized them both due to their condition, but I was stupid). Then, I stretched to 3/4s with silicone (which I also now realize was really dumb), and my right ear is actually kind of okay, it's very thin though (I've got some Jojoba Oil to take care of that), and on my left ear there has been this flap of skin in the back (it's been there for at least a month), and I didn't really think it was a blowout at first, but then I realized: "No shit, this a blowout and a bad one at that." So I've decided to come here to ask really HOW bad this is and what I can do to get rid of this huge flap of skin in the back of my ear.