okay, i was at 1 1/8" and my left ear is kinda thin. i stretched to 1 1/4" a couple days ago. well i slept on it last night and when i woke up, the thin part of my ear was a little grey-ish. i used lotion with jojoba in it. it helped a little bit and my ear FEELS fine but is still grey-ish. my friend gave me some grape seed oil to massage it with. he said to take my plug out for a bit and let it rest.
if you have any advise for me, please tell me. im really reaked out and dont want my ear to rip. thank you