by corazon_de_oro » Tue Jul 06, 2010 4:33 pm
I agree with them!
To add a few things... it may not be legal depending on where you live. I don't think it is here in the US, and finding a piercer who will do it anyway is NOT a good idea.
Also, when you have your ears scalpelled, they stretch a lot on their own after that. Usually people get scalpelled to several milimeters below their goal size and since you're only going to 4G you might end up passing that.
Maybe you could consider getting a 4G piercing? It might be hard to find a shop willing to do it but it's definitely an option. You could also get pierced at 6G and immediately stretched to 4G. Or even get pierced at 10G or so, wait six months, and start stretching one size at a time. I got pierced at 10G in April of 2009 and I was at 4G in less than a year.
Stretching really does take a lot of patience, and I definitely agree that if you don't have the patience to stretch to 4G you should probably think about getting a different type of modification. If you do decide to stretch to 4G, make sure you take it slowly and don't mess up your lobes. You only get one pair of them!
I'm Lindsay.
I have 1/2" lobes and 11 piercings: left helix x2, both conches, both nostrils, septum, navel, and VCH.
My lobes are small but I know a lot about stretching and how to do it safely, so message me if you have any questions!