My lobes are currently at 32mm, which is 1 1/4 inches. I'm stopping for a few months now, i think, so i can let my ears really loosen up and possibly do some downsizing for thickening purposes. My goal is 1 1/2 inch. Anyways, here's a quick shot of the lobes. I can post more if anybody else is interested.
I've been stretching for 2 years now. Never had a rip or blowout in either ear. I've put way too much time, effort and money into these to mess them up.