Okay so ive been stretching since January and i am at a 10g, my ears heal pretty quickly and i was able to slide it in every single time without any pain at all. However one ear was always behind the other ( my right ear )when i stretched to a 10g a few days later it was swollen, sore, and red, leaking puss possible lymph (but no blood my ears never bleed before)my left ear seems to be doing well, i can actually see my hole and pretty much ready to size up again and its never discomforting.
my left ear you cant even tell its being stretched its like my ear isn't even pierced to begin with the hole isn't even much visible it just kinda blends in with my normal ear lobe its crusty when i clean it and ive been massaging it with oil, and cleaning it and hoping its not a blow out, also i downsized about a week ago back 2 sizes it kinda keeps sliding out at night
why does it look like it does, i thought it was going perfect?