My left ear is at 22mm, and I massage it with Bio-Oil twice a day and upsize when I feel I'm ready (generally every 3-4 weeks lately, I used to wait a few months when I was 2mm - 12mm but that's because it didn't feel ready)
Now I stretch with silicone tunnels, but I've read around that this isn't recommended. Can somebody please explain the reason behind these warnings? I haven't experienced a blowout, and I recently went from 20mm down to 16mm to thicken my lobe.